Kuuden vuoden i?ss? CPS vei minut v?kivaltaiselta ?idilt?ni asumaan biologisen is?ni ja h?nen miehens? kanssa. Minulla oli monia ongelmia ratkaistavana, ja 14-vuotiaana (noin kes?kuussa) yritin itsemurhaa, koska ?itini uhkasi vied? is?ni oikeuteen saadakseen j?lleen huoltajuuden. Min? ep?onnistuin (onneksi), h?n ep?onnistui (my?s onneksi).
Sin? jouluna sain tavallisia lahjoja, mutta sitten is?ni veiv?t minut sivuun ja ei-biologinen is?ni esitti minulle adoptiopaperit, jotka tekisiv?t h?nest? laillisesti my?s minun is?ni eik? vain is?puoleni. Oli h?mm?stytt?v? kokemus tiet??, ett? sen j?lkeen, kun sain ne l?pi, sek? biologinen is?ni ett? ei-biois?ni halusivat edelleen minua ja rakastivat minua. Saimme adoption p??t?kseen, ja se on edelleen paras joululahja, jonka olen koskaan saanut.
At age six, I was taken by CPS from my abusive mom to live with my bio-dad and his husband. I had a lot of issues to work through, and at 14 (around the month of June) I attempted suicide, because my mother was threatening to take my dads to court to get custody of me again. I failed (thankfully), she failed (also thankfully).
That Christmas, I got normal presents, but then my dads took me aside and my non-biological father presented me with adoption papers that would make him legally my dad too and not just my step-dad. It was an amazing experience to know that after all I put them through, that both my bio dad and my non-bio dad still wanted me and loved me. We got the adoption finalized, and that remains the best Christmas present I ever got.
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